he Help you Always Wanted for Picky Eaters

Some children are problem feeders and/or have medical reasons for their limited eating and need professional support and therapy. Many will expand their diet with some concerted focus and effort. It’s helpful to work with someone and/or have your child assessed if you suspect more serious feeding issues.

I want to encourage parents to try expanding their food choices, which is generally done in conjunction with a special nutrition-focused autism diet. Parents are often very surprised to see their child expand their diet once the problematic foods have been removed. I have heard countless stories from parents who tell me that after they removed the problematic foods (often gluten and casein), their child became less restrictive and began to eat many new foods, including vegetables.

Factors Affecting Picky Eating

Here are some solid reasons why children can be so one-sided in their food choices and become picky eaters: "Addictions" to opioids (gluten and casein) can cause consumption of primarily wheat and dairy-containing foods. According to this theory, when gluten (wheat) and casein (dairy) are not digested properly, the body can create compounds that fit into opioid receptors in the brain and feed opioid (morphine-like) cravings and addictions. The child then becomes restricted to only the foods that fuel this addictive cycle, resulting in very limited and picky eating. “Addictions” to chemicals (e.g., MSG, artificial additives) can affect restrictions on one brand or a strong preference for processed foods. These chemicals can also be addictive, like opioids. MSG is known to create “excitement” in the brain by stimulating the glutamate (excitatory) receptor, making food seem to taste much better. Artificial ingredients, such as artificial colors and flavors, can also affect similar cravings.

• Nutrient deficiencies (such as zinc) can make all foods taste bad or bland. When zinc is deficient, which is a common finding in children with autism, the sense of smell is reduced, and food tastes boring or unappetizing. Texture can then become an even bigger factor. Imagine eating mashed potatoes if you can’t taste the potato flavor—a bland mouthful of mush.
• Yeast, viral, and microbial overgrowth may cause a heightened focus on eating mainly high-carbohydrate and sugar-rich foods. Yeast and other microbes feast on carbohydrates and sugar. They can get their “host” to crave the food that feeds them by giving off chemicals that get kids to crave refined carbohydrates and sugar. This can create self-limitation to only these foods.
• Sensory sensitivities can result in the restriction of foods of certain textures. For children with sensory issues such as tactile and sound sensitivities, food texture can be a big hurdle. Crunchy foods can be too loud, and mushy foods can be intolerable. In these cases, it’s advised to seek an occupational therapist or other professionals who can help you work through these sensory integration challenges; a feeding therapist can help with this, too. Sometimes, as sensory integration therapies begin to address food textures, a child begins to expand their food choices.
• Once you’ve identified possible causes of your child’s finicky eating habits, begin to look for creative ways to address them and get support when you need it. If you have your child’s trust in food and you’re able to make some changes to your child’s diet, consider the following ideas: If you are unsure, seek a professional evaluation first.

Making Nutritious Foods Enjoyable for Children

Addressing picky eating is essential for expanding the diet and implementing an autism diet, but sometimes the diet won’t expand until certain foods are removed. Don’t let picky eating stop you from implementing an autism diet. Find new foods your child will eat before implementing a new diet, and then, after the problematic or addictive foods are removed, see if your child will expand little by little. In other words, find several breakfasts, lunches, dinners, and snack options for the new diet, often making one-for-one substitutions with foods they already eat. This way, we are not removing any foods from an already restrictive diet. After implementing the new diet, such as GF/CF, begin to try adding new foods and some vegetables of varied texture. Even if your child has been on a diet for a while or has not begun to implement a new diet, there are suggestions below that can help get new and nutritious foods into the diet. Get creative and make foods crunchy or smooth based on the picky eater’s preferences. Be aware that brand preference may be due to MSG or other additives that can be addictive, making that food “exciting.” Add enough salt to make your versions of their favorites more flavorful; don’t go overboard, but don’t feel you need to limit salt. Be creative with food. Begin to add vegetables where you can, and slowly introduce foods in a slightly different way than they have before. See if you can make food a little different each day: don’t vary it so much that they reject it, but vary it to the degree that they don’t expect sameness and you can work in new nutrients. Add purees to pancakes, applesauce, meatballs, or sauces. Make vegetables crunchy by making carrot chips, sweet potato fries, or vegetable latkes. Hide meat in pancakes. Try mixing or diluting a brand of food or beverage they like with a healthier version in very small amounts until the item is swapped for the new food; this works well for milk, peanut or nut butter, applesauce, and other foods that blend well. Here are some good-tasting ideas for introducing vegetables, fermented foods, and meat into a child’s diet.

Pureed vegetables:

• Add pureed vegetables to muffins.
• Add pureed vegetables to pancakes (1/4- 1/2 cup puree per cup of pancake flour mix).
• Include pureed vegetables in meatballs, meat patties, and meatloaf.
• Mix pureed vegetables into sauces, such as tomato sauce.

Fermented foods:

• Shred an apple(s) and add 50/50 with raw sauerkraut to reduce sourness. Serve as shredded fruit salad.
• Pure raw sauerkraut or other cultured vegetables in a food processor with applesauce (or other fruit sauce).
• Add non-dairy yogurt (such as nut milk yogurt or coconut yogurt) to fruit and puree into a smoothie, or use a small amount of fruit and make a fruit-yogurt dipping sauce for fruit kebabs.

Here are some ideas to help introduce picky eaters to new foods:

• Always provide food that the child likes in addition to one new food.
• Involve your child in the preparation of new food.
• Don’t require the child to do anything other than get familiar with it.
• Consider incorporating the food into therapy or playtime.
• Inform the child. Say whether it is sweet, salty, or sour. Eat some yourself and say how delicious it is.
• First, have your child touch the food and lick it without eating it.
• Let your child chew it and spit it out.
• Start with only a small taste—approximately 1/2 teaspoon. Let the child determine the amount.
• Try and try again! At least 15 times!
• Get creative. Try a new food with a preferred texture, e.g., crunchy or smooth.
• Avoid being emotionally "attached"; children sense anxiety. Keep mealtime calm. Visualize your child eating and enjoying new foods.
• Avoid forcing or pushing; maintain trust.
• Choose rewards or other encouragement, but not food-based rewards.
• Make sure that the whole family participates; serve everyone at the table.
• Make it fun!

Step-by-Step Progress

Was your mom or dad a picky eater? If so, try having that person feed the child. While it may be frustrating to cook food and have your child refuse it, try your best to avoid projecting negative energy or frustration. Children are very sensitive and pick up on your cues, which affects how they feel. If they don’t eat it, don’t give in and prepare something completely new. Set yourself up for success by making sure that each meal includes something you know they will eat along with the new food. Or try new foods when they are hungry at snack time. This is a good time to do so because, while they may skip a snack, they will not be going without a main meal, and you won’t teach them that if they hold out, you will fix them something else. They will also be a little hungrier at dinner and maybe more motivated to try something new. Getting good nutrition is an important step to health and healing. Try implementing a diet and adding nutritious foods step-by-step. You can do it, and your child can too! I have seen countless children expand their diet. Once food addictions, texture, and exposure to a new food are addressed, you’ll be surprised by what your child may eat. Visualize that they can do it. Get creative. Try things with a texture they like. Taste it yourself, and make sure it tastes good. You’ll be pleasantly surprised when they eat that first vegetable and more! Nourishing hope takes persistence and patience; even the pickiest eaters can progress and benefit from the diet for autism.

The information expressed here comes from Julie’s experience as a certified nutrition consultant with clients who are picky eaters and listening to their parents’ experiences. Julie is not a feeding specialist. This information in intended to help parents find creative ways to feed their children healthy food. It is not intended to act as or replace professional feeding therapy or medical needs. Parents of children with serious feeding issues should seek professional and medical guidance.